So what is the relationship between husband and wife…parents and children? Last time we described what the husband being the head of the home and his wife submitting to his leadership does NOT imply or entail. We saw that husbands are commanded by God to respect their wives which would obviously prohibit all forms of abuse: emotional or physical, verbal or sexual. A husband being the head of his home excludes controlling his wife’s behavior, attitudes or opinion. It is interesting to note that husbands are not instructed to submit their wives, force them to submit, manipulate them into submission or even to consistently remind them to submit. The instruction regarding this issue is directed at wives, not husbands. It is upon the wife to submit herself willingly, in obedience to the Creator and designer of the family…not for the husband to enforce or lord over his wife. My…how “Christian” men have altered the home life God intended for hundreds, nay, thousands of years.
This concept of wives making the choice to submit, as opposed to be forced to submit, is a revolutionary one by world history standards. In, for example, the Islamic world, not only are wives forced to submit to their husbands (with corporal punishment not only allowed by prescribed for the husband to deal out for insubordination of their wives) but women in general are forced into submission under all men. If I really wanted to disturb you I could post a video or two of women being stoned to death in Afghanistan, Iran or the Sudan…for things such as adultery (if a women is raped she is considered an adulteress in those cultures). I’ll spare you that dose of reality…maybe I shouldn’t…watch one or two of those videos and you’ll discard any notion that all cultures are equal. There is a reason why the “Christian world” used to refer to the “Islamic world” as barbaric. But here is a video for you to watch as an Imam teaches men to discipline their unruly wives on Islamic TV (the Imam is simply teaching, there is nothing graphic in this clip whatsoever).
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You are such a good writer! I love reading your stuff. Keep up the good work!
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Just wanted your big head to go down a little. Someone has to keep you humble. Love your posts and input.
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